Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Adjusting to Life as a Family of Four

Alright, here's the run down of the past month of our lives. We're adjusting quite well, with the exception of our lack of sleep, which should resolve itself eventually. Here's "baby sister":

(As a side note, we really shouldn't have stressed so much about a name and just named her "baby sister" as that is all she gets called anyway.)

This is how Carly spends most of her days


This is how she spends the rest of her time when she's not eating

On rare occasions, she does this (oh we are so blessed, she is quite a pleasant girl)

This is a really weird picture that makes it look like she's smiling with a ginormous flower on her head. She's not really smiling, and the flower isn't that huge.

Jay is taking his lack of attention better than expected. On occasion he insists that we "drop baby sister" while we're holding her, and often tells us "you not want hold baby sister". On the flip side, whenever she's awake and looking at him, he says "I think she like me...I like her too...I think she like you too mommy!".

He is watching too much TV these days, but the doctor says it doesn't make me a bad mom. He has also learned how to operate the computer mouse and loves playing games on pbskids.org all by himself. When Carly is sleeping and Jay and I get hang out time, we usually bake something, and then the whole family spends the next day eating way too many cookies. We seriously have got to make some friends that like cookies that could potentially contain slobber, or I am never going to lose this baby weight!

Jay and I try to keep busy inside the house most days as we're stuck here without a car. We invested in a fabulous "sit 'n stand" double stroller that we love so we can make the occasional trip to the playground and stroll around the neighborhood. He also enjoys painting and coloring these days and is working on being proficient with a glue stick. He borrows a small circle paper punch I have and LOVES to "clip" hundreds of circles out of paper. We are not combining skills and creating fabulous greeting cards with lots of circles glued on them...watch your mailbox and you might just get lucky and receive one of these cards!

This is a picture of Jay making cupcakes with Grandma Melinda (she's much more patient than I am. When Jay and I make muffins, putting the batter in the cups is a "mommy job".)

One last Jayism to end this post:
The other day I had to chase him down in the parking lot after he tried to run off. I informed him that he would be going to time-out as soon as we returned home. This conversation followed:
Jay: I not want to go time out!
Darbie: Well, then you should listen to what mommy says.
Jay: It's hard mommy, it's hard!

6 comments:

Lindsey said...

Sleeping baby pictures are so sweet. Sounds like you guys are adjusting fabulously! Hooray:)

Cara said...

Aww, Darbie she is so precious and adorable. i just want to hold her! To bad you live so far away. And Jay is so funny! I couldn't help but laugh at that conversation you had with him. Sounds like the adjusting is going pretty darn good if you ask me.

Oh and tell your parents we said HI!

Unknown said...

Ok...I am so excited to come and see Carly in November...

Nikki said...

Sounds like you're settling in to life with two kids. I'm glad Carly is a pleasant little one--that makes life so much easier. I remember Kate having the same ambivalence that Jay has when Ashley was born. It won't be too long until they are good little playmates and you will have a moment to yourself--imagine that!

Anonymous said...

Yay, Darbie, she is so beautiful and Jay is such a handsome boy (and a character!) I think Grandmas probably have more patience because they realize they didn't have enough with their own kids. As I get older, I realize how picky I was about messes and keeping my kids spotless....and now I think, why???

Becky said...

Hey Darbie! It's your old neighbor back at Wymount. Congrats on your beautiful baby girl! It was fun to hear how Jay's doing too. We miss seeing you guys but are glad you're enjoying yourselves in Ohio.